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Print & Online Resources

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Abuse ~ Anger ~ Anxiety ~ Assertiveness
Attachment Issues ~ Communication Skills ~ Compassion ~ Death & Loss
Depression ~ Health Issues ~ Men's Issues
Mental Health Issues ~ Mindfulness ~ Parenting ~ Pet Loss
Positive Psychology ~ Posttraumatic Stress ~ Reproductive Loss
Self-Harm ~ Shame ~ Social Anxiety ~ Stress Management ~ Suicide

   

Guided Relaxation
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Here are some self-help books and
websites that you might find useful.

 
 
 

ABUSE

Women Recovering From Childhood Sexual Abuse

  • The Courage to Heal
    by Ellen Bass & Laura Davis

  • Trauma and Recovery
    by Judith Herman

Men Recovering From Childhood Sexual Abuse

  • Victims No Longer
    by Michael Lew

  • Wounded Boys, Heroic Men
    by Daniel Sonkin

  • Internet Resource
    Overcoming sexual victimization of boys and men.
    www.malesurvivor.org

For Partners Of Adult Survivors Of Childhood Sexual Abuse

  • Allies in Healing
    by Laura Davis

  • Growing Beyond Survival
    by Elizabeth G Vermilyea

For Battered Women

Date Or Acquaintance Rape

  • I Never Called It Rape
    by Robin Warshaw

Women Who Have Endured Verbal Abuse

  • The Verbally Abusive Relationship
    by Patricia Evans

 
 

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ANGER

Written For Women But Just As Helpful For Men In Understanding What Causes Anger

  • The Dance of Anger
    by Harriet Lerner

Anger Management Techniques

  • The Anger Workbook
    by Lorraine Bilodeau

  • Letting Go of Anger
    by Ron Potter-Efron and Pat Potter-Efron

 
 

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ANXIETY

Anxiety Management Guides

  • The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook
    by Edmund J. Bourne

  • Mastery of Your Anxiety and Panic II
    by David Barlow and Michael J. Craske

Managing Panic Attacks

  • Don't Panic
    by Reid Wilson

  • The Fear Book: Facing Fear Once and For All
    by Cheri Huber

Internet Resources

 
 

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ASSERTIVENESS

Assertiveness Skill Training In General

  • Your Perfect Right
    by Robert Alberti and Michael Emmons

  •  When I Say No I Feel Guilty
    by Manuel Smith

Assertiveness Skill Training For Women

  • The Assertive Woman
    by Stanlee Phelps and Nancy Austin

 
 

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ATTACHMENT ISSUES

  • Becoming Attached
    by Robert Karen

 
 

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COMMUNICATION SKILLS

  • Boundaries: When to say yes and when to say no
    by Henry Cloud and John Townsend

  • Getting The Love You Want
    by Harville Hendrix

  • How Can I Get Through To You
    by Terrance Real

  • Life Skills for Adult Children
    by Janet Wotitz

  • You Just Don't Understand Me
    by Deborah Tannen

Relationship Issues

  • Codependent No More
    by Melody Beattie

  • Don't Let Your Kids Kill You A Guide for Parents of Drug and Alcohol Addicted Children
    by Charles Rubin

  • Getting Past The Affair
    by Douglas Snyder, Donald Baucom, & Kristina Coop Gordon

Internet Resources

 
 

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COMPASSION

Internet Resources

  • Charter for Compassion
    www.charterforcompassion.org
    TED Prize winner Karen Armstrong's wish is realized as the Charter for Compassion officially launches. This is a document created by thousands of people around the world. It is capable of enabling a new dialog between the major religions and between religious and nonreligious people

 
 

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DEATH, LOSS AND GRIEVING

Coping With Loss Of Any Kind

  • How to Survive the Loss of a Love
    by Melba Colgrove and Associates
     

  • Widownet
    Established in 1995, it is the first online information and self-help resource for, and by, widows and widowers. www.widownet.org

Spiritual Approach To Loss

  • When Bad Things Happen to Good People
    by Harold Kushner

Death Of A Loved One

  • How to Go on Living When Someone You Love Dies
    by Theresa Rando

Helping A Child Learn To Cope With Grief

  • Learning to say Good-By
    by Eda LeShan

 
 

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DEPRESSION

Autobiographies By People Who Have Suffered From Severe Depression

  • Darkness Visible
    by William Styron

  • Undercurrents
    by Martha Manning

Cognitive-Behavioural Strategies For Managing Depression

  • Mind Over Mood
    by Dennis Greenberger and Christine A. Padesky

  • The Feeling Good Handbook
    by David Burns

Decreasing Depression By Brief And Practical Suggestions

  • When Living Hurts
    by Michael D. Yapko

Internet Resources

Using Mindfulness to Ease Depression

  • The Mindful Way Through Depression
    by Mark Williams, John Teasdale, Zindel Segal, & Jon Kabat-Zinn

 
 

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HEALTH ISSUES

  • Managing Pain Before It Manages You
    by Margaret A. Caudill

  • Mainstay. A Companion Book For The Well Spouse of The Chronically Ill
    by Maggie Strong

  • The Wisdom Of Menopause
    by Christine Northrup, MD

 
 

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MEN'S ISSUES

Examining The Destructive Myths Of Boyhood

  • Real Boys
    by William Pollack

Stages And Transitions In A Man's Life Cycle

  • Season's of a Man's Life
    by Danial J. Levinson

 
 

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MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES

  • Antidepressant Withdrawal - if you are considering stopping your antidepressants, you may want to check out this blog on the best way to it:
    http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/05/03/6-ways-to-prepare-for-withdrawal-from-an-antidepressant/

  • Bully Online Managed by Tim Field. A comprehensive website devoted to all forms of bullying, how to recognize bullying, resources, case histories, and advice.
    www.bullyonline.org

  • Canadian Mental Health Association (BC) exists to promote the mental health of British Columbians and support the resilience and recovery of people experiencing mental illness.
    www.cmha.bc.ca

  • Canadian Psychological Association has made a large set of "Psychology Works" fact sheets available on their web site. It tells you how to recognize symptoms of many psychological difficulties and the main treatment approaches.
    http://www.cpa.ca/publications/yourhealthpsychologyworksfactsheets/

  • Mental Help Net: mental health, wellness, education and advocacy.
    www.mentalhelp.net

  • Mood Disorders Association of British Columbia has a vision of seeing people with a mood disorder living a healthy and active life.
    www.mdabc.net

  • National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) This site provides information from the US Federal agency that conducts and supports research on mental illnesses
    www.nimh.nih.gov

  • Obsessive Compulsive Foundation (OCF) The OCF is an international not-for-profit organization composed of people with obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) and related disorders, their families, friends, professionals and other concerned individuals
    www.ocfoundation.org

  • Psychcentral Managed by John M. Grohol, Psy.D. The site claims to be the Internet's largest and oldest mental health social network created and run by mental health professionals to guarantee reliable, trusted information and support communities to consumers, for over 12 years.
    www.psychcentral.com

 
 

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MINDFULNESS

  • Full Catastrophe Living
    by John Kabot Zen

  • Peace Is Every Step
    by Thich Nhat Hanh

  • 10 Quotes for a Mindful Day
    By Elisha Goldstein, Ph.D.
    July 16, 2009

Sometimes quotes can be just the bite size piece of wisdom we need to pop us into a mindful state of mind. Here are 10 quotes from leading people in the filed of mindfulness that might just do that.

  1. “Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible.” ~ Dalai Lama

  2. “If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.” ~ Dalai Lama

  3. “There is no way to happiness, happiness is the way.” ~ Thich Nhat Hanh

  4. “If it isn’t good, let it die. If it doesn’t die, make it good.” ~ Ajahn Chah

  5. “If we learn to open our hearts, anyone, including the people who drive us crazy, can be our teacher.” - Pema Chodron

  6. “As soon as we wish to be happier, we are no longer happy.” ~ Walter Landor

  7. “Hatred never ceases by hatred; it only ceases by love.This is a timeless truth” ~ Joseph Goldstein

  8. “There is no enlightenment outside of daily life.” ~ Thich Nhat Hanh

  9. “Realize that this very body, with its aches and it pleasures… is exactly what we need to be fully human, fully awake, fully alive.” ~Pema Chodron

  10. “When we scratch the wound and give into our addictions we do not allow the wound to heal.” ~ Pema Chodron

 
 

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PARENTING

  • Kids', Parents and Power Struggles
    by Mary Sheedy Kurcink

 
 

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PET LOSS & BEREAVEMENT
End of Life Choices for Animals

Internet Resource

 
 

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POSITIVE PSYCHOLOGY

Internet Resource

 
 

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POSTTRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER

Internet Resource

 
 

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REPRODUCTIVE LOSS

Internet Resource

  • Fertility Plus by Nancy Newman
    www.fertilityplus.org/faq/miscarriage/resources.html

  • MISS Foundation, support groups for family members and resources for caregivers.
    www.missfoundation.org

  • "Empty Cradle, Broken Heart" by Davis
    www.emptycradle.org/

  • An Empty Cradle, a Full Heart by Christine O'Keeffe Lafser
    Reflections for Mothers and Fathers After Miscarriage, Stillbirth, or Infant Death

  • Hope is like the Sun by Lisa Church
    Finding Hope and Healing after Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Infant Death.

 
 

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SELF-HARM

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy Centre of Vancouver, Inc.

  • This is a bi-monthly blog that address a variety of topics related to recurrent self-harm and suicidality and other problems characteristic of Borderline Personality Disorder.
    http://dbtvancouver.com/blog/

 
 

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ISSUES OF SHAME

Shame And Guilt

  • Masters of Disguise
    by Jane Middleton-Moz

 
 

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SOCIAL ANXIETY

  • The Art of Civilized Conversation
    by Margaret Shepherd
     

  • The Introvert Advantage
    by Marti Olsen Laney
     

  • Painfully Shy: How to Overcome Social Anxiety and Reclaim Your Life
    by Marbara G. Markway, Ph.D.
     

  • The Shyness and Social Anxiety Workbook
    by MM Anthony

 
 

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STRESS MANAGEMENT

Ways To Reduce Stress

  • The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook
    by Martha Davis and Associates

Meditation And Mindfulness

  • Wherever You Go, There You Are
    by Jon Kabat-Zinn

On The Mind-Body Connection

  • The Wellness Book
    by Herbert Benson

  • When the Body Says No
    by Gabor Maté

 
 

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SUICIDE

 
 

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